{"id":3393,"date":"2026-08-12T14:30:00","date_gmt":"2026-08-12T11:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/?p=3393"},"modified":"2026-08-11T19:53:22","modified_gmt":"2026-08-11T16:53:22","slug":"ozel-egitim-ogretmeninin-gozunden-ailelerin-cocuguna-yardim-ederken-farkinda-olmadan-yaptigi-10-hata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/2026\/08\/12\/ozel-egitim-ogretmeninin-gozunden-ailelerin-cocuguna-yardim-ederken-farkinda-olmadan-yaptigi-10-hata\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00d6zel E\u011fitim \u00d6\u011fretmeninin G\u00f6z\u00fcnden: Ailelerin \u00c7ocu\u011funa Yard\u0131m Ederken Fark\u0131nda Olmadan Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 10 Hata"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\ud83d\udcdd Edit\u00f6r Notu<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu yaz\u0131 bir ara\u015ft\u0131rma makalesi de\u011fil; bir \u00f6zel e\u011fitim \u00f6\u011fretmeninin sahada kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 durumlar, ailelerle ya\u015fanan deneyimler ve g\u00fcnl\u00fck e\u011fitim s\u00fcrecinden edinilen tecr\u00fcbeleridir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Burada bahsedilen durumlar her aile i\u00e7in ge\u00e7erli birer \u201chata\u201d olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclmemelidir. Her \u00e7ocuk ve her aile \u015f\u00fcphesiz farkl\u0131d\u0131r. Amac\u0131m\u0131z aileleri ele\u015ftirmek ya da su\u00e7lamak de\u011fil; bazen iyi niyetle yap\u0131lan baz\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n \u00e7ocuk \u00fczerindeki olas\u0131 etkilerine farkl\u0131 bir pencereden bakabilmektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6zel e\u011fitimde bazen en \u00f6nemli de\u011fi\u015fiklik, \u00e7ocu\u011fa yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015feyden \u00e7ok, ona yakla\u015f\u0131m bi\u00e7imimizi de\u011fi\u015ftirmekle ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2e3b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun geli\u015fimi yaln\u0131zca derste\/okulda ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmez. Okulda \u00f6\u011frenilen bir becerinin evde nas\u0131l desteklendi\u011fi, \u00e7ocu\u011fa ne kadar ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131k tan\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na nas\u0131l kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k verildi\u011fi ve aile ile \u00f6\u011fretmen aras\u0131ndaki i\u015f birli\u011fi s\u00fcrecin \u00f6nemli par\u00e7alar\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aileler \u015f\u00fcphesiz ki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n geli\u015fimini desteklemek i\u00e7in ellerinden geleni yapar. Ancak bazen iyi niyetle yap\u0131lan baz\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ileti\u015fim kurmas\u0131n\u0131 veya \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fi becerileri g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda kullanmas\u0131n\u0131 yani ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zla\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 zorla\u015ft\u0131rabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n amac\u0131 \u201ciyi aile-k\u00f6t\u00fc aile\u201d ayr\u0131m\u0131 yapmak de\u011fil. \u00d6zel e\u011fitim s\u00fcrecinde sahada s\u0131k kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131lan baz\u0131 durumlar\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretmenin g\u00f6z\u00fcnden ele alarak \u201cBunu ben de yap\u0131yor olabilir miyim?\u201d sorusuna f\u0131rsat vermek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Peki aileler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na yard\u0131m etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken en s\u0131k hangi noktalarda zorlan\u0131yor?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>\u00c7ocu\u011fun yerine s\u00fcrekli konu\u015fmak<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>     \u201cAd\u0131n ne?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuk cevap vermeden:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>     \u201cAli de, o\u011flumun ad\u0131 Ali.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>     \u201cNe istiyorsun?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>     \u201cSu istiyor.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocu\u011fun ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7abucak anlatmas\u0131 veya gidermesi amac\u0131yla onun yerine cevap vermek olduk\u00e7a yayg\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak \u00e7ocuk her an kendisi ad\u0131na bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n konu\u015ftu\u011funu hissederse, kendi ileti\u015fim becerilerini kullanmas\u0131 i\u00e7in daha az f\u0131rsat bulabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6zellikle konu\u015fma becerileri geli\u015fmekte olan \u00e7ocuklarda birka\u00e7 saniye beklemek bile \u00f6nemli olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocu\u011fa soru soruldu\u011funda hemen cevap vermek yerine ona d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesi ve cevap olu\u015fturmas\u0131 i\u00e7in zaman tan\u0131mak daha faydal\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bazen \u00e7ocu\u011fa verebilece\u011fimiz en b\u00fcy\u00fck destek, onun yerine konu\u015fmamak ve beklemektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2e3b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>\u00c7ocu\u011fun yapabilece\u011fi i\u015fleri onun yerine yapmak<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ayakkab\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ba\u011flayabiliyor ama yava\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7antas\u0131n\u0131 kendisi haz\u0131rlayabiliyor ama biraz da\u011f\u0131n\u0131k.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u0131yafetini giyebiliyor ama yeti\u015fkin daha h\u0131zl\u0131 giydiriyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sonu\u00e7?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">     <em>\u201cBen yapay\u0131m, sen yorulma.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu yakla\u015f\u0131m g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131rabilir hatta size ve ailenize zamanda kazand\u0131rabilir fakat \u00e7ocu\u011fun ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131k geli\u015ftirme f\u0131rsat\u0131n\u0131 azaltabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6zel e\u011fitimde ama\u00e7 yaln\u0131zca \u00e7ocu\u011fa bir beceriyi yapt\u0131rmak de\u011fildir. \u00c7ocu\u011fun m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funca ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z \u015fekilde yapabilmesini sa\u011flamak da e\u011fitimin \u00f6nemli hedeflerinden biridir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocu\u011fun yapabildi\u011fi bir i\u015fi onun yerine yapmak yerine gerekti\u011finde k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ipu\u00e7lar\u0131 vermek ve zaman tan\u0131mak daha uygun olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2e3b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"3\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>\u00c7ocu\u011fu ba\u015fka \u00e7ocuklarla k\u0131yaslamak<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>     \u201cBak, karde\u015fin yap\u0131yor.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>     \u201cArkada\u015f\u0131n okumay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendi, sen h\u00e2l\u00e2 \u00f6\u011frenemedin.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">     <em>\u201cSenin ya\u015f\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuklar bunlar\u0131 \u00e7oktan yap\u0131yor.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu c\u00fcmleler bazen \u00e7ocu\u011fu motive etmek amac\u0131yla s\u00f6ylenir. Ancak s\u00fcrekli kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma, \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendisini yetersiz hissetmesine neden olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6zel e\u011fitimde her \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00f6\u011frenme h\u0131z\u0131, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc y\u00f6nleri, ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 ve ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 noktas\u0131 farkl\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her \u00e7ocuk birbirinden farkl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu nedenle daha anlaml\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma \u015fudur:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bug\u00fcn d\u00fcnden daha farkl\u0131 ne yapabiliyor?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir ay \u00f6nce tek ba\u015f\u0131na yapamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir beceriyi bug\u00fcn k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ipucuyla yapabiliyorsa bu da \u00f6nemli bir geli\u015fmedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocu\u011fun ba\u015fkas\u0131na g\u00f6re ne durumda oldu\u011fundan \u00e7ok, kendi geli\u015fim \u00e7izgisindeki ilerlemesine bakmak daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir yakla\u015f\u0131m olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2e3b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"4\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Her davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 \u201cinat\u201d olarak de\u011ferlendirmek<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuk etkinli\u011fe kat\u0131lm\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">     <em>\u201c\u0130nat ediyor.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuk a\u011fl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">     <em>\u201c\u015e\u0131mar\u0131yor.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuk s\u0131n\u0131ftan \u00e7\u0131kmak istiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">     <em>\u201cS\u00f6z dinlemiyor.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oysa davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fcnen k\u0131sm\u0131 ile alt\u0131nda yatan neden ayn\u0131 olmayabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuk bir iste\u011fini ifade edemedi\u011fi i\u00e7in davran\u0131\u015f g\u00f6sterebilir. G\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcden rahats\u0131z olabilir. G\u00f6revi \u00e7ok zor bulabilir. Ne yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmiyor olabilir. Dikkatini s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmekte zorlanabilir veya \u00e7evresindeki de\u011fi\u015fiklikten dolay\u0131 kayg\u0131 ya\u015fayabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu nedenle problem davran\u0131\u015fla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda yaln\u0131zca <em>\u201cBunu nas\u0131l durdururum?\u201d<\/em> sorusuna odaklanmak yerine:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u201cBu davran\u0131\u015f neden ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">sorusunu sormak daha anlaml\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n \u00f6ncesini, davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n kendisini ve sonras\u0131nda ne oldu\u011funu g\u00f6zlemlemek, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131 anlaman\u0131n anahtar\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2e3b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"5\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Her \u015feyi \u00e7ocu\u011fun tan\u0131s\u0131yla a\u00e7\u0131klamak<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuk dikkatini s\u00fcrd\u00fcremiyor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>     \u201cDEHB\u2019si var.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuk g\u00f6z temas\u0131 kurmuyor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>     \u201cOtizmden dolay\u0131.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuk \u00f6fkeleniyor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>     \u201cZaten BEP&#8217;li.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tan\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fu anlamak i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli bilgiler sa\u011flayabilir ancak \u00e7ocu\u011fun b\u00fct\u00fcn davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klayan tek ba\u015f\u0131na bir etiket de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ayn\u0131 tan\u0131ya sahip iki \u00e7ocu\u011fun becerileri, ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 birbirinden olduk\u00e7a farkl\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu nedenle \u00e7ocu\u011fu yaln\u0131zca tan\u0131s\u0131 \u00fczerinden de\u011ferlendirmek yerine bireysel \u00f6zelliklerini, \u00e7evresini, becerilerini ve ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131<strong> birlikte <\/strong>ele almak gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuk tan\u0131s\u0131ndan ibaret de\u011fildir.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2e3b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"6\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>\u00c7ok k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede b\u00fcy\u00fck de\u011fi\u015fiklik beklemek<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6zel e\u011fitim s\u00fcrecinde ailelerin en s\u0131k ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zorluklardan biri de:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> <em>    \u201cNe zaman d\u00fczelecek?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">sorusudur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aile birka\u00e7 hafta i\u00e7erisinde b\u00fcy\u00fck bir de\u011fi\u015fim g\u00f6rmek isteyebilir. Ancak yeni bir becerinin \u00f6\u011frenilmesi; \u00e7ocu\u011fun haz\u0131rbulunu\u015flu\u011fu, \u00f6\u011fretim y\u00f6ntemi, tekrar say\u0131s\u0131, motivasyonu, \u00e7evresel ko\u015fullar ve becerinin niteli\u011fi gibi bir\u00e7ok fakt\u00f6re ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir becerinin okulda \u00f6\u011frenilmesi de her zaman onun evde veya farkl\u0131 ortamlarda hemen kullan\u0131laca\u011f\u0131 anlam\u0131na gelmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu nedenle sab\u0131r, tutarl\u0131l\u0131k ve s\u00fcreklilik \u00f6zel e\u011fitim s\u00fcrecinin \u00f6nemli par\u00e7alar\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6zel e\u011fitimde sihirli de\u011fnekler de\u011fil; sab\u0131rla, emekle ve sevgiyle at\u0131lan kararl\u0131 ad\u0131mlar vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2e3b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"7\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Okulda yap\u0131lan \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n evde devam etmemesi<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6\u011fretmenler okulda \u00e7ocu\u011fa bir beceri kazand\u0131rmak i\u00e7in haftalarca \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak \u00e7ocuk ayn\u0131 beceriyi evde kullanmak i\u00e7in f\u0131rsat bulmuyorsa \u00f6\u011frenilen becerinin g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fama aktar\u0131lmas\u0131 zorla\u015fabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6rne\u011fin okulda kendi e\u015fyalar\u0131n\u0131 toplamas\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretilen bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun evde her zaman e\u015fyalar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015fkalar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan toplanmas\u0131, bu becerinin ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z \u015fekilde kullanma f\u0131rsat\u0131n\u0131 azaltabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Burada aileden beklenen \u00e7ocu\u011fa \u00f6\u011fretmen gibi ders vermesi de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tam tersine, g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131n do\u011fal f\u0131rsatlar\u0131n\u0131 kullanmak \u00e7o\u011fu zaman yeterlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6\u011fretmenin \u00f6nerdi\u011fi beceriyi yemek s\u0131ras\u0131nda, giyinirken, al\u0131\u015fveri\u015fte veya oyun s\u0131ras\u0131nda desteklemek \u00f6\u011frenmenin farkl\u0131 ortamlara aktar\u0131lmas\u0131na katk\u0131 sa\u011flayabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2e3b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"8\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>\u00c7ocu\u011fun her istedi\u011fini hemen yapmak<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">     <em>\u00c7ocuk bir \u015feyi i\u015faret ediyor.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">     <em>Aile hemen veriyor.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">     <em>\u00c7ocuk a\u011fl\u0131yor.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>     \u0130stedi\u011fi hemen yap\u0131l\u0131yor.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">     <em>\u00c7ocuk bir yeti\u015fkinin elinden tutup onu istedi\u011fi yere g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcyor.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">     <em>Yeti\u015fkin hemen takip ediyor.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n arkas\u0131nda \u00e7o\u011fu zaman \u00e7ocu\u011fu \u00fczmeme veya zor durumda b\u0131rakmama iste\u011fi vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak \u00e7ocu\u011fun ileti\u015fim kurmas\u0131, se\u00e7im yapmas\u0131 ve ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 uygun yollarla ifade etmesi i\u00e7in f\u0131rsatlar olu\u015fturmak \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6rne\u011fin \u00e7ocuk su istiyorsa hemen suyu vermek yerine, sahip oldu\u011fu ileti\u015fim becerisine uygun \u015fekilde <em>\u201cSu\u201d<\/em> demesine, i\u015faret etmesine veya kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 ileti\u015fim \u015feklini kullanmas\u0131na f\u0131rsat verilebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Buradaki ama\u00e7 \u00e7ocu\u011fu ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131ndan mahrum b\u0131rakmak de\u011fil; ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131 ifade etmesi i\u00e7in ileti\u015fim f\u0131rsat\u0131 olu\u015fturmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2e3b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"9\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Sadece akademik becerilere odaklanmak<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Okuma, yazma ve matematik elbette \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Ancak \u00f6zel e\u011fitim yaln\u0131zca akademik ba\u015far\u0131dan ibaret de\u011fildir.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Tuvaletini ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z kullanmas\u0131,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Giyinmesi,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Yemek yemesi,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0130leti\u015fim kurmas\u0131,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>S\u0131ras\u0131n\u0131 beklemesi,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Yard\u0131m istemesi,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sosyal ili\u015fkiler kurmas\u0131,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>G\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam becerilerini yerine getirmesi<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">de en az akademik beceriler kadar \u00f6nemli olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bazen bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendi ba\u015f\u0131na montunu giymesi, bir ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131 uygun \u015fekilde ifade etmesi veya yard\u0131m istemeyi \u00f6\u011frenmesi, onun g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131ndaki ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck bir kazan\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 yaln\u0131zca karne notlar\u0131yla \u00f6l\u00e7memek gerekir.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2e3b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"10\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>\u00d6\u011fretmenle yeterince ileti\u015fim kurmamak<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6zel e\u011fitim s\u00fcrecinde \u00f6\u011fretmen ve aile iki ayr\u0131 <strong>taraf de\u011fildir.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ayn\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fun geli\u015fimini destekleyen iki \u00f6nemli <strong>payda\u015ft\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6\u011fretmen okulda g\u00f6zlemledi\u011fi bir davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 aileyle payla\u015fabilir. Aile evde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan farkl\u0131 bir durumu \u00f6\u011fretmene aktarabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuk okulda farkl\u0131, evde farkl\u0131 davranabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu farkl\u0131l\u0131klar bir problem de\u011fil, do\u011fru de\u011ferlendirildi\u011finde <strong>\u00f6nemli bir bilgi kayna\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6\u011fretmenle d\u00fczenli ileti\u015fim kurmak; \u00e7ocu\u011fun hangi beceriler \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, hangi y\u00f6ntemlerin i\u015fe yarad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve evde nas\u0131l desteklenebilece\u011fini anlamay\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131rabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Burada ileti\u015fim yaln\u0131zca:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">     <em>\u201cBug\u00fcn ne yapt\u0131?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">sorusundan ibaret olmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">    <em> \u201c\u015eu beceriyi evde nas\u0131l destekleyebilirim?\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">sorusu da olduk\u00e7a de\u011ferlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2e3b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Peki aileler ne yapmal\u0131?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Asl\u0131nda yukar\u0131daki maddelerin ortak bir noktas\u0131 var:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocu\u011fun yerine yapmak yerine \u00e7ocu\u011fa yapabilmesi i\u00e7in f\u0131rsat vermek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Onun yerine konu\u015fmak yerine ileti\u015fim kurmas\u0131 i\u00e7in beklemek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Onun yerine yapmak yerine denemesine izin vermek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 yaln\u0131zca bast\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak yerine nedenini anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla k\u0131yaslamak yerine kendi geli\u015fimini takip etmek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sadece akademik hedeflere de\u011fil, g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam becerilerine de \u00f6nem vermek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve en \u00f6nemlisi, \u00f6\u011fretmenle ayn\u0131 hedef do\u011frultusunda hareket etmek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><mark style=\"background-color:#ffffff\" class=\"has-inline-color has-black-color\">Son S\u00f6z: Hata yapmak s\u00fcrecin bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6zel gereksinimli bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun ailesi olmak, her durumda ne yap\u0131laca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmek anlam\u0131na gelmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ailelerin yanl\u0131\u015f karar vermesi, bazen sabr\u0131n\u0131n t\u00fckenmesi veya \u00e7ocu\u011funa yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken istemeden baz\u0131 hatalar yapmas\u0131 son derece anla\u015f\u0131labilir bir durumdur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6nemli olan hatay\u0131 hi\u00e7 yapmamak de\u011fil, fark etti\u011fimizde yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirebilmektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6zel e\u011fitim s\u00fcrecinde siz ailelerden beklenen kusursuz olmak de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocu\u011fu tan\u0131mak, onun g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc y\u00f6nlerini g\u00f6rmek, ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak, ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 desteklemek ve e\u011fitim ekibiyle i\u015f birli\u011fi yapmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6zel e\u011fitimde as\u0131l hedef \u00e7ocu\u011fu s\u00fcrekli olarak bir yeti\u015fkine ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 h\u00e2le getirmek de\u011fil; m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funca ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z, i\u015flevsel ve ya\u015fam\u0131n i\u00e7inde yer alabilen bir birey olarak desteklemektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Bazen \u00e7ocu\u011fa verebilece\u011fimiz en b\u00fcy\u00fck yard\u0131m, onun yerine yapmak de\u011fil; kendi ba\u015f\u0131na yapabilmesi i\u00e7in ona zaman, f\u0131rsat ve destek vermektir.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\ud83d\udcdd Edit\u00f6r Notu Bu yaz\u0131 bir ara\u015ft\u0131rma makalesi de\u011fil; bir \u00f6zel e\u011fitim \u00f6\u011fretmeninin sahada kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 durumlar, ailelerle ya\u015fanan deneyimler ve g\u00fcnl\u00fck e\u011fitim s\u00fcrecinden edinilen tecr\u00fcbeleridir. Burada bahsedilen durumlar her aile [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3394,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"cybocfi_hide_featured_image":"yes","footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[142,225,224,144],"class_list":["post-3393","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-rehberligi","tag-ailerehberligi","tag-davranisdegistirme","tag-ogretmen","tag-ozelegitim"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3393","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3393"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3393\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3395,"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3393\/revisions\/3395"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3394"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3393"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3393"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3393"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}