{"id":3430,"date":"2026-09-02T17:39:32","date_gmt":"2026-09-02T14:39:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/?p=3430"},"modified":"2026-09-02T17:39:36","modified_gmt":"2026-09-02T14:39:36","slug":"cocuklarda-davranis-problemleri-davranisin-ardindaki-ihtiyaci-anlamak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/2026\/09\/02\/cocuklarda-davranis-problemleri-davranisin-ardindaki-ihtiyaci-anlamak\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuklarda Davran\u0131\u015f Problemleri: Davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n Ard\u0131ndaki \u0130htiyac\u0131 Anlamak"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman s\u00f6yleyemedikleri duygular\u0131n ve kar\u015f\u0131lanmam\u0131\u015f ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n bir ifadesidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ebeveynlik s\u00fcrecinde \u201c<strong>\u00c7ocu\u011fum beni dinlemiyor\u201d, \u201cHer \u015feye \u00f6fkeleniyor\u201d, \u201cS\u00fcrekli kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor\u201d,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<strong>Karde\u015fine zarar veriyor<\/strong>\u201d ya da \u201c<strong>Okulda s\u00fcrekli problem ya\u015f\u0131yor<\/strong>\u201d gibi c\u00fcmleler olduk\u00e7a s\u0131k duyulur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocu\u011fun davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 aile ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 zorla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ebeveynlerin \u00e7aresiz, \u00f6fkeli veya yetersiz hissetmesi anla\u015f\u0131labilir bir durumdur. Ancak davran\u0131\u015f problemlerini anlaman\u0131n ilk ad\u0131m\u0131, davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 yaln\u0131zca ortadan kald\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken bir sorun olarak g\u00f6rmemektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc davran\u0131\u015f, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bir mesaj ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u00c7ocuklarda davran\u0131\u015f problemi nedir?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her a\u011flama, \u00f6fke, inatla\u015fma veya kurala kar\u015f\u0131 gelme davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 bir davran\u0131\u015f problemi de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuklar geli\u015fimlerinin farkl\u0131 d\u00f6nemlerinde s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 test edebilir, hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015fayabilir ve duygular\u0131n\u0131 yo\u011fun bi\u00e7imde ifade edebilirler. \u00d6zellikle \u00e7ocukluk d\u00f6neminde zaman zaman kar\u015f\u0131 gelme, \u00f6fkelenme veya sald\u0131rgan davran\u0131\u015flar g\u00f6r\u00fclebilir. Bir davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n klinik a\u00e7\u0131dan de\u011ferlendirilmesinde \u00e7ocu\u011fun ya\u015f\u0131, davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n s\u00fcreklili\u011fi, \u015fiddeti ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun g\u00fcnl\u00fck i\u015flevselli\u011fi \u00fczerindeki etkisi dikkate al\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu nedenle ayn\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f, farkl\u0131 ya\u015flardaki iki \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in ayn\u0131 anlam\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131mayabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u00c7ocuklarda hangi davran\u0131\u015fsal g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fckler g\u00f6r\u00fclebilir?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuklarda davran\u0131\u015fsal sorunlar farkl\u0131 bi\u00e7imlerde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Bunlar aras\u0131nda:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yo\u011fun ve s\u0131k \u00f6fke n\u00f6betleri,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vurma, \u0131s\u0131rma, itme gibi sald\u0131rgan davran\u0131\u015flar,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u015fyalara zarar verme,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u00fcrekli kar\u015f\u0131 gelme ve tart\u0131\u015fma,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 inatla\u015fma,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Karde\u015fle yo\u011fun \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Okulda arkada\u015flarla problem ya\u015fama,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kurallara uymakta zorlanma,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ders s\u0131ras\u0131nda dikkatini s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmekte g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fck,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Okula gitmek istememe,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yalan s\u00f6yleme veya izinsiz e\u015fya alma,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u00fcrt\u00fcsel ve kontrol edilmesi g\u00fc\u00e7 davran\u0131\u015flar say\u0131labilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak  burada \u00f6nemli olan yaln\u0131zca davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n ne oldu\u011fu de\u011fil, davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n neden ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201c\u00c7ocu\u011fum neden b\u00f6yle davran\u0131yor?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Davran\u0131\u015f problemlerinin tek bir nedeni yoktur. \u00c7ocu\u011fun bireysel \u00f6zellikleri, geli\u015fimsel s\u00fcre\u00e7leri, aile ili\u015fkileri, okul ya\u015fant\u0131s\u0131 ve \u00e7evresel ko\u015fullar birlikte rol oynayabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6rne\u011fin \u00e7ocuk:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Duygusunu ifade etmekte zorlan\u0131yor olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dikkatini veya d\u00fcrt\u00fclerini d\u00fczenlemekte g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fck \u00e7ekiyor olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir de\u011fi\u015fime uyum sa\u011flamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Okulda akademik veya sosyal bir g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fck ya\u015f\u0131yor olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yo\u011fun bir duygusal y\u00fck alt\u0131nda olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ebeveyninden ilgi ve ba\u011flant\u0131 ar\u0131yor olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu nedenle davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken \u00e7ocu\u011fu <strong>\u201cyaramaz\u201d, \u201cinat\u00e7\u0131\u201d veya \u201cproblemli\u201d<\/strong> olarak etiketlemek yerine davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ba\u011flama bakmak gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n arkas\u0131ndaki ihtiyac\u0131 g\u00f6rmek<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuklar yeti\u015fkinler kadar geli\u015fmi\u015f ileti\u015fim ve duygu d\u00fczenleme becerilerine sahip de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu nedenle bazen bir davran\u0131\u015f, \u00e7ocu\u011fun hen\u00fcz kelimelerle ifade edemedi\u011fi bir duygunun d\u0131\u015favurumu olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir \u00e7ocuk vurdu\u011funda asl\u0131nda:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u201c\u00c7ok \u00f6fkeliyim.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir \u00e7ocuk s\u00fcrekli a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u201cBununla ba\u015f etmekte zorlan\u0131yorum.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir \u00e7ocuk \u00f6dev s\u0131ras\u0131nda yo\u011fun bi\u00e7imde kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u201cBunu yapmak benim i\u00e7in \u00e7ok zor.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir \u00e7ocuk s\u00fcrekli anne-babas\u0131n\u0131n dikkatini istedi\u011finde:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u201cSeninle ba\u011flant\u0131 kurmaya ihtiyac\u0131m var.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">mesaj\u0131n\u0131 veriyor olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Elbette her davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n tek bir nedeni yoktur. Bu nedenle de\u011ferlendirme s\u0131ras\u0131nda davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n ortaya<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ko\u015fullar\u0131n ayr\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 olarak ele al\u0131nmas\u0131 \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201cS\u00f6z dinlemiyor\u201d mu, yoksa yapmakta zorlan\u0131yor mu?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ebeveynlerin s\u0131kl\u0131kla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir durum, \u00e7ocu\u011fun verilen y\u00f6nergeleri yerine getirmemesidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak burada \u00f6nemli bir ayr\u0131m vard\u0131r:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u00c7ocuk yapmak istemiyor mu, yoksa yapmakta zorlan\u0131yor mu?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6rne\u011fin dikkatini s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmekte zorlanan bir \u00e7ocuk uzun ve \u00e7ok a\u015famal\u0131 y\u00f6nergeleri takip etmekte g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fck ya\u015fayabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Duygular\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fczenlemekte zorlanan bir \u00e7ocuk k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na beklenenden \u00e7ok daha yo\u011fun tepki verebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu nedenle davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 de\u011ferlendirirken yaln\u0131zca \u00e7ocu\u011fun motivasyonuna de\u011fil, becerilerine ve geli\u015fimsel kapasitesine de bakmak gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ebeveynler ne yapabilir?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1. Duyguyu kabul edin, davran\u0131\u015fa s\u0131n\u0131r koyun<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocu\u011fun duygusunu kabul etmek, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 onaylamak anlam\u0131na gelmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6rne\u011fin:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u201c\u00c7ok \u00f6fkelendi\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum. \u00d6fkelenebilirsin ama karde\u015fine vuramazs\u0131n.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu yakla\u015f\u0131m \u00e7ocu\u011fa hem duygusunun g\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc hem de davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 oldu\u011funu g\u00f6sterir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2. Kurallar\u0131 net ve tutarl\u0131 belirleyin<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n g\u00fcvenli bir ortamda geli\u015febilmesi i\u00e7in \u00f6ng\u00f6r\u00fclebilir s\u0131n\u0131rlara ihtiyac\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kurallar k\u0131sa, a\u00e7\u0131k ve ya\u015fa uygun olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u201cYaramazl\u0131k yapma.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">yerine:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u201cOyunca\u011f\u0131 f\u0131rlatm\u0131yoruz. K\u0131zd\u0131ysan bana s\u00f6yleyebilirsin.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">demek \u00e7ocu\u011fa yaln\u0131zca ne yapmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini de\u011fil, alternatif olarak ne yapabilece\u011fini de g\u00f6sterir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3. Olumlu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr hale getirin<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocu\u011fun olumlu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n fark edilmesi ve ebeveynlerin davran\u0131\u015f y\u00f6netimi becerilerinin geli\u015ftirilmesi, \u00e7ocuklardaki problem davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n azalt\u0131lmas\u0131na y\u00f6nelik kan\u0131ta dayal\u0131 yakla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00f6nemli bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u201cBug\u00fcn \u00e7ok uslu durdun.\u201d<\/em><strong> <\/strong>yerine:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u201cKarde\u015fin oyunca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ona vurmadan bana geldi\u011fini fark ettim.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">gibi davran\u0131\u015fa \u00f6zg\u00fc geri bildirimler \u00e7ocu\u011fun hangi davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n desteklendi\u011fini daha iyi anlamas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>4. \u00c7ocu\u011fa s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 se\u00e7imler sunun<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocu\u011fa her konuda kontrol vermek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. Ancak uygun s\u0131n\u0131rlar i\u00e7inde se\u00e7im yapmas\u0131na izin<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">vermek \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 azaltabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u201c\u00d6nce di\u015flerini mi f\u0131r\u00e7alamak istersin, pijamalar\u0131n\u0131 m\u0131?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Burada s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 yeti\u015fkin belirler; \u00e7ocuk ise s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n i\u00e7inde se\u00e7im yapar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Ne zaman bir uzmandan destek al\u0131nmal\u0131?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuklarda g\u00f6r\u00fclen her davran\u0131\u015fsal g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fck profesyonel destek gerektirmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ancak davran\u0131\u015flar:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">uzun s\u00fcre devam ediyorsa,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">giderek yo\u011funla\u015f\u0131yorsa,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">ev i\u00e7indeki ili\u015fkileri ciddi bi\u00e7imde etkiliyorsa,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">okul ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 veya akademik i\u015flevselli\u011fi bozuyorsa,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">arkada\u015f ili\u015fkilerinde belirgin sorunlara yol a\u00e7\u0131yorsa,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00e7ocu\u011fun kendisine veya ba\u015fkas\u0131na zarar vermesine neden oluyorsa<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">bir uzman taraf\u0131ndan de\u011ferlendirilmesi uygun olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n ya\u015fa g\u00f6re beklenenden belirgin bi\u00e7imde farkl\u0131, s\u00fcrekli veya \u015fiddetli olmas\u0131 ve i\u015flevsellikte<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">bozulmaya yol a\u00e7mas\u0131, profesyonel de\u011ferlendirme gerektirebilecek \u00f6nemli g\u00f6stergelerdendir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De\u011ferlendirme yaln\u0131zca \u00e7ocu\u011fun davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na odaklanmamal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011fun geli\u015fimsel \u00f6zellikleri, aile ili\u015fkileri, okul ya\u015fant\u0131s\u0131, sosyal \u00e7evresi, duygusal durumu ve davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ko\u015fullar birlikte de\u011ferlendirilmelidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ebeveyn deste\u011finin \u00f6nemi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Davran\u0131\u015f problemlerinde yaln\u0131zca \u00e7ocu\u011fa odaklanmak her zaman yeterli de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ebeveynlerin  \u00e7ocu\u011fun davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 anlama, olumlu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 destekleme, uygun s\u0131n\u0131rlar koyma ve problem davran\u0131\u015flara tutarl\u0131 bi\u00e7imde yan\u0131t verme becerilerini geli\u015ftirmeleri tedavi s\u00fcrecinin \u00f6nemli bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2026 y\u0131l\u0131nda yay\u0131mlanan kapsaml\u0131 bir meta-analizde 64 randomize kontroll\u00fc \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma de\u011ferlendirilmi\u015f;ebeveyn odakl\u0131 ve ebeveyn\/\u00e7ocuk\/\u00f6\u011fretmen bile\u015fenlerini i\u00e7eren psikososyal m\u00fcdahalelerin okul \u00f6ncesi ve okul \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuklarda y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n azalt\u0131lmas\u0131yla ili\u015fkili oldu\u011fu bulunmu\u015ftur (Selph et al.,2026).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Benzer \u015fekilde 2021 tarihli bir sistematik derlemede ebeveyn e\u011fitim programlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocuklardaki d\u0131\u015fa y\u00f6nelimli davran\u0131\u015f sorunlar\u0131nda anlaml\u0131 iyile\u015fmeler sa\u011flayabildi\u011fi bildirilmi\u015ftir (Zarakoviti et al., 2021).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u00c7ocu\u011fu de\u011fil, davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmek<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuklarla \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken \u00f6nemli ayr\u0131mlardan biri \u015fudur:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201cSen k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fcn.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">yerine<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<strong>Bu davran\u0131\u015f uygun de\u011fil.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">demek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocu\u011fun ki\u015fili\u011fini hedef alan ifadeler yerine davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 tan\u0131mlamak, \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendisi ile davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 aras\u0131nda ayr\u0131m yapmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ama\u00e7 \u00e7ocu\u011fu \u201c<strong>uslu\u201d<\/strong> hale getirmek de\u011fil;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">duygular\u0131n\u0131 tan\u0131yabilen, kendisini ifade edebilen, s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 anlayabilen ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 giderek daha iyi d\u00fczenleyebilen bir \u00e7ocuk olmas\u0131n\u0131 desteklemektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Sonu\u00e7: Davran\u0131\u015f bir mesajd\u0131r<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 bazen ebeveynler i\u00e7in olduk\u00e7a zorlay\u0131c\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fakat zorlay\u0131c\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n ard\u0131nda \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ke\u015ffedilmeyi bekleyen bir duygu, ihtiya\u00e7 veya geli\u015ftirilmesi gereken bir beceri olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu nedenle \u00e7ocu\u011fun davran\u0131\u015f\u0131yla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda kendimize \u015fu soruyu sorabiliriz:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201c\u00c7ocu\u011fum \u015fu anda bana ne anlatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor?<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bazen cevap daha net s\u0131n\u0131rlar olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bazen daha fazla ba\u011flant\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bazen duygular\u0131n\u0131 ifade etmeyi \u00f6\u011frenmek\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bazen ise profesyonel deste\u011fe ihtiya\u00e7 duymak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocu\u011fun davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 anlamak, davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fmesi i\u00e7in at\u0131labilecek en \u00f6nemli ad\u0131mlardan biridir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 Anlamak \u0130\u00e7in Profesyonel Destek<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her \u00e7ocuk kendine \u00f6zg\u00fc bir geli\u015fim s\u00fcrecinden ge\u00e7er. Bu nedenle davran\u0131\u015fsal g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcklerin de\u011ferlendirilmesinde \u00e7ocu\u011fu yaln\u0131zca davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 \u00fczerinden ele almak yerine, \u00e7ocu\u011fun b\u00fct\u00fcnsel geli\u015fimini ve i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fu \u00e7evreyi anlamak \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun \u00f6fke, sald\u0131rganl\u0131k, yo\u011fun inatla\u015fma, kurallara kar\u015f\u0131 gelme, okul uyumu veya benzeri davran\u0131\u015fsal g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fckler ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z, profesyonel bir de\u011ferlendirme s\u00fcrecinden yararlanabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ama\u00e7 \u00e7ocu\u011fu de\u011fi\u015ftirmek de\u011fil; \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendisini ve duygular\u0131n\u0131 daha iyi anlamas\u0131na,ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 uygun yollarla ifade etmesine ve yeni ba\u015f etme becerileri geli\u015ftirmesine .<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kadriye Demir | Uzman Psikolog<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kaynak\u00e7a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2026, May 15). Behavior or conduct problems in children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\ue200url\ue202CDC \u2013 Behavior or Conduct Problems in Children\ue202https:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/children-mental-health\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">about\/about-behavior-or-conduct-problems-in-children.html\ue201<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2026, July <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman s\u00f6yleyemedikleri duygular\u0131n ve kar\u015f\u0131lanmam\u0131\u015f ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n bir ifadesidir. Ebeveynlik s\u00fcrecinde \u201c\u00c7ocu\u011fum beni dinlemiyor\u201d, \u201cHer \u015feye \u00f6fkeleniyor\u201d, \u201cS\u00fcrekli kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor\u201d, \u201cKarde\u015fine zarar veriyor\u201d ya da \u201cOkulda s\u00fcrekli problem [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":26,"featured_media":3437,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"cybocfi_hide_featured_image":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[225],"class_list":["post-3430","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-rehberligi","tag-davranisdegistirme"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3430","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/26"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3430"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3430\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3444,"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3430\/revisions\/3444"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3437"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3430"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3430"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3430"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}