{"id":3519,"date":"2026-09-25T12:44:00","date_gmt":"2026-09-25T09:44:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/?p=3519"},"modified":"2026-09-25T18:52:42","modified_gmt":"2026-09-25T15:52:42","slug":"bir-gun-sadece-bir-kahve-icebilecek-miyim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/2026\/09\/25\/bir-gun-sadece-bir-kahve-icebilecek-miyim\/","title":{"rendered":"Bir G\u00fcn Sadece Bir Kahve \u0130\u00e7ebilecek Miyim?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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Her an her \u015feye haz\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 olmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/strong>
\u00c7ocu\u011fun kendisi belirler durumu.<\/strong>
Bakal\u0131m zaman ne g\u00f6sterecek.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bir Hacettepe g\u00fcn\u00fc sonras\u0131, doktorla yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z konu\u015fmalardan akl\u0131mda kalanlar…<\/p>\n

\u201cN\u00f6rolojideki bir\u00e7ok \u00e7ocuktan daha iyi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor ama normal \u00e7ocuklardan \u00e7ok geride.\u201d<\/p>\n

13 ay bitti. H\u00e2l\u00e2 desteksiz oturmakta s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 \u00e7ekiyoruz. Kas\u0131l\u0131yoruz. Nas\u0131l tepki vermemiz gerekti\u011fini bilmiyoruz.<\/p>\n

Herhalde 5-6 ayl\u0131k bir bebek gibiyiz.<\/p>\n

Onun nas\u0131l oldu\u011funu da bilmiyorum. Oras\u0131 da ayr\u0131 bir \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc…<\/p>\n

\u201cAaa, bu sefer \u00e7ok daha iyi g\u00f6rd\u00fck.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ne yapay, ne can yak\u0131c\u0131 bir c\u00fcmlesin…<\/p>\n

Sonras\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 oyunlar, \u201ccan\u0131mlar, cicimler\u201d…<\/p>\n

Ve benim sinirlerime, g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131ma h\u00e2kim olamama h\u00e2lim.<\/p>\n

Bazen diyorum ki;<\/p>\n

Kimin ah\u0131n\u0131 ald\u0131k da bu haldeyiz? Hangimiz ald\u0131k b\u00f6yle bir ah\u0131 acaba?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Babas\u0131yla hi\u00e7 kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmasayd\u0131k, bamba\u015fka hayatlar ya\u015fasayd\u0131k, ayr\u0131 ayr\u0131 yerlerde olsayd\u0131k…
Acaba yine evlatlar\u0131m\u0131zla b\u00f6yle bir imtihandan ge\u00e7er miydik?<\/p>\n

Bug\u00fcn Hacettepe\u2019de \u00f6\u011fle aras\u0131nda oturduk, kafede kahve i\u00e7tik.<\/p>\n

Yak\u0131n masalara \u00f6\u011frenciler geldi, oturdular.<\/p>\n

O kadar \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fcm ki kendime…<\/p>\n

Ben de bir zamanlar bu hayat\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131yordum. B\u00fct\u00fcn derdim; okul, projeler, gelecek kayg\u0131s\u0131 faland\u0131.<\/p>\n

\u015eimdiyse hasta bir \u00e7ocukla, ne getirece\u011fi belli olmayan bir hayat\u0131n i\u00e7indeyim.<\/p>\n

Bir g\u00fcn bir kafede, dertsiz tasas\u0131z oturup bir kahve daha i\u00e7ebilecek miyim acaba?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bunu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek a\u011flad\u0131m.<\/p>\n

Asl\u0131nda sadece kahve i\u00e7emedi\u011fim i\u00e7in de\u011fil…<\/p>\n

\u201cAa, \u00e7ocu\u011fun nesi var? Ama \u00e7ok iyi duruyor.\u201d<\/strong>
\u201cSen zay\u0131flad\u0131n m\u0131?\u201d<\/strong>
\u201c\u0130\u015fi de mi b\u0131rakt\u0131n?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu sorulara maruz kalmadan, kafam rahat, \u00f6zg\u00fcrce ve huzurla oturamayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 hissetti\u011fim i\u00e7in a\u011flad\u0131m.<\/p>\n

O sorular\u0131n cevaplar\u0131na gelince…<\/p>\n

\u201c\u00c7ocu\u011fumda epilepsi ve spastisite var. Nedeni belli de\u011fil. Elimizden geleni yap\u0131yoruz ama \u00e7ok da ilerleyebilmi\u015f de\u011filiz.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cZay\u0131flad\u0131m \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc o\u011flum kortizon kullan\u0131rken onunla birlikte diyet yapt\u0131k. Ayr\u0131ca y\u00fcz\u00fcm zay\u0131flamad\u0131 can\u0131m; ben do\u011frudan \u00e7\u00f6kt\u00fcm. G\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn o g\u00f6zler, a\u011flamaktan k\u0131r\u0131\u015fan, endi\u015feden yorgun d\u00fc\u015fen g\u00f6zler…\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cYapmaktan ger\u00e7ekten zevk ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir i\u015fim vard\u0131. Ama kimseye \u00e7ocu\u011fumun nesi oldu\u011funu, neler ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, hangi s\u00fcre\u00e7lerden ge\u00e7ti\u011fimizi anlatmak istemedi\u011fim i\u00e7in evet, i\u015fi b\u0131rakt\u0131m.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131n\u0131n her d\u00f6neminde sosyal olmu\u015f, g\u00fczel ili\u015fkiler kurmu\u015f, insanlarla ileti\u015fim kurmay\u0131 seven biri olarak…<\/p>\n

Kendime \u00e7ok \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcyorum.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Belki de en \u00e7ok buna…<\/p>\n

Bir zamanlar gelece\u011fi planlayan, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan, \u00fcreten, arkada\u015flar\u0131yla kahve i\u00e7ip saatlerce sohbet eden o kad\u0131na…<\/p>\n

\u015eimdi bir kafede tek bir kahveyi bile \u201cAcaba bunu ne zaman yeniden dertsiz tasas\u0131z i\u00e7ebilece\u011fim?\u201d<\/strong> diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek i\u00e7en kad\u0131na…<\/p>\n

Ve galiba insan bazen \u00e7ocu\u011funun hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131na de\u011fil,
o hastal\u0131kla birlikte kaybetti\u011fi kendi hayat\u0131na da a\u011fl\u0131yor.<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Her an her \u015feye haz\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 olmal\u0131y\u0131z.\u00c7ocu\u011fun kendisi belirler durumu.Bakal\u0131m zaman ne g\u00f6sterecek. Bir Hacettepe g\u00fcn\u00fc sonras\u0131, doktorla yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z konu\u015fmalardan akl\u0131mda kalanlar… \u201cN\u00f6rolojideki bir\u00e7ok \u00e7ocuktan daha iyi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor ama normal \u00e7ocuklardan […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":3544,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"cybocfi_hide_featured_image":"yes","footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[245,237,239],"class_list":["post-3519","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-rehberligi","tag-anne-2","tag-cp-2","tag-epilepsi-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3519","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3519"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3519\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3545,"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3519\/revisions\/3545"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3544"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3519"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3519"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ozelegitim.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3519"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}